Category: Dreamblog

Dreamblog

Never Walk Alone Today, on 16. February 2020, Tom has been gone for 13 years. Two nights ago, I dreamt about him once more. It does not happen as often as it used to nowadays, maybe twice a year or so. It’s always a thrill to see him and speak with him. The dream went like this: I am walking… Read more →

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Back to stay Tom does not visit me in my dreams very often any more. I wish he would. He appeared one night this Summer, however: Suddenly he is back, and this time I do not feel so surprised, as if I were expecting him. Deep inside, I know that he is here to stay, for good. Whether he has… Read more →

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Horse whisperer I got so used to quite often having these vivid dreams about Tom, and I strongly felt that he was still with me. After a few years, he appeared more scarce, and I started to feel a bit uneasy. I was afraid that I would not see him any more, and that made me sad. But the dreams… Read more →

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Reflections in the mirror As time passed after Tom was gone, I discovered through my dreams that their content was just as much about myself as about him. They were a mixture of my grief and loss and my longing for to see him again, and all the questions I had myself concerning death. Although I believe that there is… Read more →

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Together, yet apart Around two years after Tom’s death, I had a special dream about him: I am staying at an old house. This is in the evening. I go out to check outside for the night. I then notice that the light is on in one of the outbuildings, and the door stands open. I wonder, but go to… Read more →

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Love When someone close to us suddenly is gone forever, I guess we all are full of regrets. I know I was. Why did I not tell him more often that I loved him? Why did I yell at him when he was a teenager and revolted against me? Why wasn’t I more understanding towards him? Why, why, why? I… Read more →

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Kristiane’s dream My son Tom had many good friends at the time he passed away. One of them was Kristiane. She was the one to find him dead in his bed that fatal evening. She told me that a special dream made her go see him, in addition to him not answering his phone. This is her dream: I dreamt… Read more →

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Sense and sensibility During the first months after my son had died, I struggled to understand what was reality and what was just a bad dream. My senses told me it was all real. I knew for sure that I had seen him dead, I had been to the funeral, he had been cremated and I had carried the urn… Read more →

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Picture of a Matchstick Man In the earliest dreams about my son, he was often present in various contexts with other people. He did not cause any attention, but obviously wanted to show me that he was still there. And this made me both happy and sad… Someone showed me a  small photo with several persons standing in a row… Read more →

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Running under water This is one of the early dreams I had shortly after Tom’s sudden death. I was struggeling to understand, to accept that he was gone. I find myself in a strange place where water is flowing everywhere. I am desperately trying to get to the place where Tom lived, but the tight current prevents me from swimming.… Read more →

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